Saturday, October 27, 2012

Thank you...

I had been for a funeral of a neighbor today who was in his 60s. This uncle was very sick since the last 2 months and had health issues from the start of this year. My mom did update me about him being serious since the last 3 weeks. He finally passed away a couple of days back.

He was a very jolly person from what I knew about him. The priest and his wife only confirmed the same at his funeral ceremony. However, what touched me about his final days is the following incident.

Just a few days before his death, he asked his wife for a piece of paper and a pen. He started making a note of people involved in his life that he wanted to thank. I understand that his family members have already passed and would pass on the message to others on behalf of him.

Here is a person writhing in pain in hospital for the last 2 months. For some reason, he felt he would not make it. What does he do? Thanked all the people who played an important role in his life. I never heard something like this before. What an amazing thought from his side at his deathbed.

Life does not give such an opportunity to all of us. Some of us will pass away all of a sudden. I know there might be a big list of people in our life with whom we might have not been happy. However, there might be many others, who might feel the same about us too. Is it worth holding these ill feelings inside us?

We might not get an opportunity as this uncle got, or maybe we might not be in a good frame of mind during our sickness to have such a positive thought. Just imagine how nice would it be if we could continuously appreciate the role of people that have played a positive influence in our life. A small thank you would really go a long way in making someone’s day.

I do not want to regret later on missing saying, “Thank you…” Thanks uncle for the wonderful lesson that you taught many others and me through your death. Cheers Uncle!

Sunday, October 14, 2012

Ladder 49: Value your life

I was watching a movie titled Ladder 49 today. This movie released in 2004 is about the heroics of a firefighter Jack Morrison trapped inside a warehouse fire. He recollects all the events during his lifetime in this period. The movie is a celebration of the firefighting career and the life that comes with it.

In today’s world, we see so many youth amongst us taking their lives. For this reason, I just felt like writing when i finished watching this movie.

When everything around me was in flames,
Moreover, the fire reduced all my possessions to ashes.
When the only thing I wished was to survive,
You were there.
You were there when I needed you most.

When everyone else tried to run out,
You had the courage to step in.
The only thing that mattered to you,
Was to save a life,
Save a life at any cost.

You did not think twice about your own life,
Or what would your family go through,
if you lost your life.
You were bold while performing your duty,
Wish we all were bold enough like you.

There are so many among us,
Who cannot cope with life’s struggles,
They seek the easier way out,
And try to end their own life.

Have we lost faith in the almighty?
Don’t we trust him to take care of us?
Do we think he will burden us with so much?
Without knowing how much each one of us can handle.

Life is precious.
If not for yourself, live for others to whom you mean a lot.